I regularly read some femdom forums. I have for a long time. I didn’t post under thegentledomme name before I had this blog, but now I mostly do because my life consists of creating content and talking about sex and sometimes watching The Crown. It’s so good! Isn’t it? I happened to see this post …
I don’t talk too much here about ME. I talk about what I do, and I talk about my thoughts on certain topics, usually related to femdom. But I don’t talk a lot about my personal experiences or feelings, largely because I try to protect some of my privacy. But I’ve had a bit of …
Wow. My last post really blew up on Fetlife. I think it’s currently at around 475 loves. I was kind of surprised about that, since what I said seemed fairly obvious (although I guess not as obvious when I really thought about it), and also, I am not a naked 18 year old with her tongue sticking out, which is what usually goes to the top of Kinky and Popular. 😉
But I also realized that when I direct them there, I’m not necessarily explaining the best way for them to USE Fetlife. And that’s not doing them any favors, because it can be confusing. All of these sexy people? Doing sexy things? And showing off sex, sex, sex, kink, kink, kink…..
But in a relationship, I don’t want my kink to feel like work.
So, what do I like to play in? Really, I like to play in a tank top and cute undies or a light piece of lingerie that’s easy to move in and has access to all my naughty bits. I say I like to order from the “Amazon whore store,” because they have so many cute, cheap pieces of lingerie to indulge me.
Hello Dear Femdoms of the Internets! I have a problem. My boyfriend/husband/nesting partner/alien I’m having an affair with who lives in the studio over my garage has just told me he’s into femdom! HALP! I think this actually sounds kind of interesting, but I don’t know what to do! He says he wants me to take control, but I don’t know what that means or how to do it. Can you give me a list of thirty things to do to him, but only the ones he likes?
The funny thing I realized is that I’ve always liked reading out loud. I guess because I like reading and have always been told I have an expressive voice. So, I kind of love the idea that I can just read all these sexy stories out loud and some people might want to listen to them.
But my partner’s enjoyment in using honorifics to refer to me is something I’ve grown to love in our relationship. It means something to me because it means something to him. It’s a way that he frames our relationship, or at least the kinky part of our relationship, and I notice that especially when he’s been in chastity for a number of days and is getting more and more frustrated, he tends to use them more often.
As for the debauchery, right now we are very focused on orgasm control—-his. He basically keeps himself in chastity until we see each other, and then I stretch it out until he’s going insane.
