Maybe it’s the mood I’m in today, but this made me laugh. Internet-enabled male chastity cage can be remotely locked by hackers. Of course, that would be awful! But it’s also really funny. I kind of love it, though! I would totally want one except … Continue readingDomme Bites: Cock Blocked
People tend to use these words interchangeably, but there’s an actual difference between the two. “In general, a fetish is a sexual fixation on a specific object or act that is absolutely necessary to a person’s sexual gratification.” “Kink, on the other hand, is a … Continue readingDomme Bites: What’s the Difference Between a Fetish and a Kink?
While I am a lifestyle domme, I have nothing but respect for ethical pro-dommes. This article from Vice focuses on what some professional dommes believe makes a good sub. Takeaways include explore your kinks, be vocal and specific, understand your limits and that you can … Continue readingDomme Bites: What Makes a Good Sub? Dominatrixes Explain
Wow! This book is going on my reading list. Not only does it explore femdom, also mother daughter relationships and the health care system. That’s not something you read about together every day. “What happens when a forty-something, community college sociology professor learns that her … Continue readingBook Blurb: Bound: A Daughter, a Domme, and an End-of-Life Story
According to a study in Disability Studies Quarterly, practicing BDSM can help some people with chronic pain. At first glance, this might seem counterintuitive. As author Emma Sheppard says, “Why would someone who lives with chronic pain want more pain?” But the difference is that kink … Continue readingDomme Bites: Can Kink Help Control Chronic Pain?
Here’s an interesting first hand article about a woman who uses kink to help her maintain her sobriety. People in the Scene might not be surprised about this. First, alcohol and drug use is generally frowned upon when practicing BDSM because of safety and consent … Continue readingDomme Bites: Using Kink to Help Remain Sober
Lucky for you, if you’ve got a closet full of fetish wear (or even a drawer you hide from the kids), you’re going to be extra stylish next year! This article from GQ UK says that BDSM inspired looks are going to be fashionable for … Continue readingDomme Bites: Submissive Men Rejoice: Fetish Wear is Coming into Fashion
New ads for OK Cupid are intentionally targeting dommes and subs! The ads, which are debuting now in North America, are attempting to show that, “Like past campaigns, OkCupid is committed to diverse representation (the platform has 22 options for gender and 13 for sexual … Continue readingOk Cupid Aims to Be Inclusive for Kinksters
That people into BDSM have them. A recent study confirmed that people who are into BDSM are typically highly educated. More than one-third had a university degree, with an additional 21% having a college degree. 70% had a higher education (ie, bachelor’s or master’s degree), … Continue readingDomme Bites: You Know What They Say About Big Brains, Don’t You?
The University of Antwerp conducted a study at a local kink club and monitored them through the use of questionnaires, blood samples, algometers (to measure pain threshold), GSR sensors (to monitor stress), and heart rate monitors. They found positive stress responses in BDSM practitioners that … Continue readingDomme Bites: Belgian BDSM Study Reveals Comparison to Runner’s High