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Domme Bites: Cock Blocked

Maybe it’s the mood I’m in today, but this made me laugh. Internet-enabled male chastity cage can be remotely locked by hackers. Of course, that would be awful! But it’s also really funny. I kind of love it, though! I would totally want one except for the fact that it also apparently RANDOMLY STOPS WORKING!!!!!!

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Domme Bites: What’s the Difference Between a Fetish and a Kink?

People tend to use these words interchangeably, but there’s an actual difference between the two. “In general, a fetish is a sexual fixation on a specific object or act that is absolutely necessary to a person’s sexual gratification.” “Kink, on the other hand, is a broader term that encompasses a bunch of alternative sexual interests, …

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Domme Bites: What Makes a Good Sub? Dominatrixes Explain

While I am a lifestyle domme, I have nothing but respect for ethical pro-dommes. This article from Vice focuses on what some professional dommes believe makes a good sub. Takeaways include explore your kinks, be vocal and specific, understand your limits and that you can always say no, check in and communicate, and don’t mistake …

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Book Blurb: Bound: A Daughter, a Domme, and an End-of-Life Story

Wow! This book is going on my reading list. Not only does it explore femdom, also mother daughter relationships and the health care system. That’s not something you read about together every day. “What happens when a forty-something, community college sociology professor learns that her mother—a charming, passive-aggressive, and needy woman who hasn’t had a …

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Domme Bites: Can Kink Help Control Chronic Pain?

According to a study in Disability Studies Quarterly, practicing BDSM can help some people with chronic pain. At first glance, this might seem counterintuitive. As author Emma Sheppard says, “Why would someone who lives with chronic pain want more pain?” But the difference is that kink pain is “chosen pain,” that lasts for a specific amount …

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Domme Bites: Using Kink to Help Remain Sober

Here’s an interesting first hand article about a woman who uses kink to help her maintain her sobriety. People in the Scene might not be surprised about this. First, alcohol and drug use is generally frowned upon when practicing BDSM because of safety and consent concerns. And BDSM play can light up similar receptors in …

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Ok Cupid Aims to Be Inclusive for Kinksters

New ads for OK Cupid are intentionally targeting dommes and subs! The ads, which are debuting now in North America, are attempting to show that, “Like past campaigns, OkCupid is committed to diverse representation (the platform has 22 options for gender and 13 for sexual orientation), and several pieces of creative—some of it saucy—hyper-target those …

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