It’s Valentine’s Day tomorrow. Here is a brand new infographic with some suggestions for how a submissive man can find the domme of his dreams. I wish you all love and happiness—especially after this difficult year. … Continue readingNew Infographic: Finding Your Kinky Match (Domme Dreams!)
The most important piece of advice I would give to men who are looking for a “dominant” female partner is that a domme is still just a woman. … Continue readingHow Much Does My Sexuality Influence My Personality? And What Do I Know About Dating, Anyway?
If, as a man, being submissive IS that integral to your life, a woman who is only kind of kinky or only occasionally dominant might not work for you. But I think it’s a mistake to write off women who aren’t labeling themselves—as dominant or as anything. … Continue readingWhy Submissive Men Shouldn’t Ignore Switches
Okay. So, let’s get down to it. I’m going to do a sample profile for a subby guy who likes sci-fi, board games and some sports. (I don’t know much about sports.) Kinkwise, he’s into bondage, tickling and cuckolding, among other things. … Continue readingDomme Bait: Part Two–The Dommening!
So, what I wanted to talk about was my suggestions for subby guys creating a profile on Fetlife for the purposes of meeting women. (If that’s not what you care about, feel free to totally disregard and go on with your bad self.) I want to talk about some things to avoid, and some things I think make a good profile. Let’s dig in. … Continue readingCreating a Domme Bait Profile on Fetlife (This is Way Less Creepy Than It Sounds.)
Hello Dear Femdoms of the Internets! I have a problem. My boyfriend/husband/nesting partner/alien I’m having an affair with who lives in the studio over my garage has just told me he’s into femdom! HALP! I think this actually sounds kind of interesting, but I don’t know what to do! He says he wants me to take control, but I don’t know what that means or how to do it. Can you give me a list of thirty things to do to him, but only the ones he likes? … Continue readingMy Boyfriend Told Me He’s Into Femdom, But I Don’t Know What to Do? Help!
But my partner’s enjoyment in using honorifics to refer to me is something I’ve grown to love in our relationship. It means something to me because it means something to him. It’s a way that he frames our relationship, or at least the kinky part of our relationship, and I notice that especially when he’s been in chastity for a number of days and is getting more and more frustrated, he tends to use them more often. … Continue readingThe Relative Importance of Honorifics in Gentle Femdom: And Why It’s Creepy to Call a Woman You Don’t Know Your Mistress
As if finding a kinky partner wasn’t hard enough before, now Coronavirus seems to have made it downright impossible for many. This is when I’m really happy that I’m NOT currently dating. I have numerous friends, kinky and vanilla, who aren’t sure what the new … Continue readingFinding a Domme During a Pandemic