Creating a Domme Bait Profile on Fetlife (This is Way Less Creepy Than It Sounds.)

So, what I wanted to talk about was my suggestions for subby guys creating a profile on Fetlife for the purposes of meeting women. (If that’s not what you care about, feel free to totally disregard and go on with your bad self.) I want to talk about some things to avoid, and some things I think make a good profile. Let’s dig in. … Continue readingCreating a Domme Bait Profile on Fetlife (This is Way Less Creepy Than It Sounds.)

My Boyfriend Told Me He’s Into Femdom, But I Don’t Know What to Do? Help!

Hello Dear Femdoms of the Internets! I have a problem. My boyfriend/husband/nesting partner/alien I’m having an affair with who lives in the studio over my garage has just told me he’s into femdom! HALP! I think this actually sounds kind of interesting, but I don’t know what to do! He says he wants me to take control, but I don’t know what that means or how to do it. Can you give me a list of thirty things to do to him, but only the ones he likes? … Continue readingMy Boyfriend Told Me He’s Into Femdom, But I Don’t Know What to Do? Help!

The Relative Importance of Honorifics in Gentle Femdom: And Why It’s Creepy to Call a Woman You Don’t Know Your Mistress

But my partner’s enjoyment in using honorifics to refer to me is something I’ve grown to love in our relationship. It means something to me because it means something to him. It’s a way that he frames our relationship, or at least the kinky part of our relationship, and I notice that especially when he’s been in chastity for a number of days and is getting more and more frustrated, he tends to use them more often. … Continue readingThe Relative Importance of Honorifics in Gentle Femdom: And Why It’s Creepy to Call a Woman You Don’t Know Your Mistress