I am picky about men. I don’t mean sexually, although that’s also true. I’m sexually picky far beyond what I deserve based on my own fuckability. Purely objectively. And that’s not really a choice. I would certainly like to be attracted to more people. I’m just generally…not. I mean that I’m picky about the men …
Tag: domme thoughts
Planning a Kink Scene, or Why I Stopped Planning Scenes When I Also Stopped Wearing a Bra
If you’re into tease and denial, like sommmeeeeee people around here, not naming any names, that “scene” could be something like I edge you continuously for an hour while periodically doing other things to drive you insane.
I Don’t Know If I Want to Be a Domme, But I Definitely Want to Be a Vampire
I get a lot of my blog ideas from reading questions people ask on forums. And today someone asked about what inspires your domme energy. Basically, I think I just always wanted to be a vampire.
The Internet Is a Sewer
Then most of the rats who live in the sewer don’t want to come into the light, and you are left with people who took the time to:
Passivity Is Not Hot: Why You Can and Should Be an Active Sub
While I certainly can’t speak for all dommes and/or tops out there, I feel like I’m confident enough in this belief that I can just say it. Passivity is not hot.
Spooky Woman Sex Dream
I had a bizarre dream last night which woke me up from sleep in which I discovered that my boyfriend had been seeing a woman named Texas without telling me for several months.
Is Gentle Femdom a “Porn Category?” Are People Just Jerks Online? And Other Burning Femdom Forum Inspired Questions…
I regularly read some femdom forums. I have for a long time. I didn’t post under thegentledomme name before I had this blog, but now I mostly do because my life consists of creating content and talking about sex and sometimes watching The Crown. It’s so good! Isn’t it? I happened to see this post …
Being in a Relationship with Someone Like Me
I don’t talk too much here about ME. I talk about what I do, and I talk about my thoughts on certain topics, usually related to femdom. But I don’t talk a lot about my personal experiences or feelings, largely because I try to protect some of my privacy. But I’ve had a bit of …
You’d Think I Was a Naked 18 Year Old With Her Tongue Sticking Out
Wow. My last post really blew up on Fetlife. I think it’s currently at around 475 loves. I was kind of surprised about that, since what I said seemed fairly obvious (although I guess not as obvious when I really thought about it), and also, I am not a naked 18 year old with her tongue sticking out, which is what usually goes to the top of Kinky and Popular. 😉
How to Use Fetlife: Use the Tool. Don’t Be One.
But I also realized that when I direct them there, I’m not necessarily explaining the best way for them to USE Fetlife. And that’s not doing them any favors, because it can be confusing. All of these sexy people? Doing sexy things? And showing off sex, sex, sex, kink, kink, kink…..