In this episode, I discuss the differences between submission and kinky play, submission and bottoming, and how liking or disliking service doesn’t make or break submission.
When is femdom “real?”
But sometimes…just sometimes…I like to bottom.
In Episode 11 of The Gentle Dommecast, The Rough Subbe and I discuss the return of kink events post pandemic and the difference between submission and bottoming, specifically in F/m femdom.
One of the first things you learn when you enter the kink community is that definitions, like both gender and sexuality, can be fluid. A term that means one thing to one person can mean something rather different to someone else. A good example of this are the terms top and domme. Generally, a top …