So, I’m not under any illusion that the men who call me on Niteflirt and tell me that they want to serve me ACTUALLY want to serve me, or that the ones who call me Goddess ACTUALLY have any particular respect or interest in me beyond their fetishes. I am really no more of a…
Tag: sex work
Talking About Cis Submissive Men Being Topped by Trans Women Makes Me Uncomfortable. Am I Wrong?
I’ve been thinking about this topic for a while, but I had an interesting conversation with a client tonight specifically about cis submissive men (or cis male bottoms) who want to be topped by trans women who have not had bottom surgery, and while it’s fresh in mind, I wanted to talk about it. I…
Pulling Back the Curtain: No. I’m Not Always Turned On By Your Painful Testicles.
I read this article yesterday, by Jessie Sage, and it really resonated with me. The title is Sex Workers Are Not Your Girlfriend. I notice that some men really need to believe that I’m sexually enjoying myself when I talk to them. And I totally get that. Obviously, you want the person you’re interacting with…