In Episode 8 of The Gentle Dommecast The Rough Subbe and I talk all about Fetlife! We discuss what Fetlife is, who might want to use it and why–or why not. We also talk about what we love and hate about Fetlife. On our list, we met through Fetlife. So, that’s a major positive! On …
How to Use Fetlife: Use the Tool. Don’t Be One.
But I also realized that when I direct them there, I’m not necessarily explaining the best way for them to USE Fetlife. And that’s not doing them any favors, because it can be confusing. All of these sexy people? Doing sexy things? And showing off sex, sex, sex, kink, kink, kink…..
Domme Bait: Part Two–The Dommening!
Okay. So, let’s get down to it. I’m going to do a sample profile for a subby guy who likes sci-fi, board games and some sports. (I don’t know much about sports.) Kinkwise, he’s into bondage, tickling and cuckolding, among other things.
Creating a Domme Bait Profile on Fetlife (This is Way Less Creepy Than It Sounds.)
So, what I wanted to talk about was my suggestions for subby guys creating a profile on Fetlife for the purposes of meeting women. (If that’s not what you care about, feel free to totally disregard and go on with your bad self.) I want to talk about some things to avoid, and some things I think make a good profile. Let’s dig in.
How to Write a Nice, Not Creepy Message on Fetlife, So Ladies Like You (and Don’t Block You).
What is likely to get you noticed and get a response? Basically, treating the person you are writing to as an actual person. Hello men of Fetlife! I have met many nice specimens of you in real life. You are polite, even charming! Some of you look quite adorable in your underwear. However, it seems …