When I first started experimenting with kink, I tried being a bottom. I assumed, because I was a woman and because I had enjoyed fantasies of women being submissive, that I would naturally gravitate to that role in person. But it didn’t work out that way.
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Twenty-Five Things About The Gentle Domme
I realize I don’t talk a lot about MYSELF on here, and that’s partly because I’m trying to maintain some anonymity. But today I felt like indulging myself. So, here are twenty-five things about this gentle femdomme!
Domme Bites: Cock Blocked
Maybe it’s the mood I’m in today, but this made me laugh. Internet-enabled male chastity cage can be remotely locked by hackers. Of course, that would be awful! But it’s also really funny. I kind of love it, though! I would totally want one except for the fact that it also apparently RANDOMLY STOPS WORKING!!!!!!
A Special Gift for My Favorite Toy
“Give her what she wants, Julien,” I whispered to him. “But remember. Whose cock is that fucking her?”
“Yours, ma’am,” he said shakily.
All About “Service Subs” and Gentle Femdom and Why I Pay Someone to Clean My Own Damned House
In relationships, I like to be pampered and taken care of. But this isn’t because it’s part of my kinks. I just enjoy being pampered and taken care of. I also like making most of the day to day decisions—not because I find it sexy, but because I’m a control freak and tend to think I’m awesome that way. I like my coffee delivered to my bed. I like a house nice and neat for me. But those are just nice things my partner can do for me. It doesn’t make me horny.
A Book Review That’s Really About My Shameless Kinkiness
I finished the book fairly quickly, but the general idea of it stayed with me, and I must admit it crept into the sex I was having with my boy. I sometimes imagined him as one of the men from The Fortress, who came to my room in the morning for me to use for my enjoyment.
Alas, Alack, Real Life Has Interceded in My Femdommery
The truth is that I haven’t been feeling very femdom right now. The desire comes and goes, and I’ve been distracted by quite unsexy things that have nothing to do with tying up men. Boring things-like being a human.
Sweet Weekend With My Boy
As for the debauchery, right now we are very focused on orgasm control—-his. He basically keeps himself in chastity until we see each other, and then I stretch it out until he’s going insane.
Thomas Makes the Cheerleading Team
Then he can be MY slutty, eager, vapid cheerleader. Rah! Rah! Sis! Boom! Bah! For me.
Gentle Femdom Manga: Porn for the Female Gaze
Here are a few of my favorite examples of femdom manga images I managed to dig up.