So, I inadvertently hurt some people’s feelings with my post yesterday. And I apologize for that. Sometimes I feel very clever, and my cleverness gets the better of my empathy. First, I assumed that my target reader was either a male sub or bottom or female top or Domme. And that wasn’t necessarily true. That…
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The Myth of the “Alpha Sub.” Or: Do You Really Need to Use Greek Letters to Tell Me Who You Are?
But what I don’t think these guys realize is how this comes off to the women I think they are trying to impress. I find it a distinct turnoff when someone labels themselves this way or goes out of their way to explain why they are so different from OTHER submissive/bottom men.
My Feelings About Facesitting
And yet face sitting gets heavily lumped into BDSM femdom tropes. And I suppose I understand why. Certainly, you are in control when you are atop another person’s face, your pussy or ass snugly fit against their mouth, the pressure of your body pinning them to the bed.
Taking the Forced Out of Bi
The idea that as a man you don’t REALLY want to suck cock. Oh, no. You would totally hate to take that big, thick, hard cock down your entirely not eager throat except that your girlfriend is MAKING you!
I Humiliated a Boy, and I Liked It
But let’s just say that I have been having a bit of hostility about the way in which I’ve been treated by men who, of course, claim that they want to “worship” me…with anything except their wallets. Even when they take up a lot of time, bore me, and pay relatively little. So, I was game.
A Little Light Pegging Audio To Ease You Into Your Morning….
As for now, here is a sexy FREE audio recording I made about a sensual beginning pegging session. It’s quite gentle and loving. Enjoy!
Deciding Whether to Open Your Relationship
I’ve talked before about kink and non-monogamy and the overlap between the two in the public kink-o-sphere. Non-monogamy and kink certainly don’t NEED to go together, but they often do for people who enjoy kink outside of the bedroom.
Don’t Be a Brat! Or Do. Maybe?
Brats often get a bad rap in the kink world. Brats typically like to test their doms and act out either because they enjoy punishment (or funishment) or because they have switchy tendencies and require what they feel is a strong dom/domme to “put them in their place.”
Any Questions?
Hello, my Darling Deviants! I’m always looking for good blog content. If you have any questions you’d like to me to answer or topics you’d be interested in hearing me write about, please let me know! –Vivian
Why Denial is So Dang Hot!
My biggest kink is orgasm control. That involves a lot of things, including teasing, edging, ruining, chastity and denial.