And yet face sitting gets heavily lumped into BDSM femdom tropes. And I suppose I understand why. Certainly, you are in control when you are atop another person’s face, your pussy or ass snugly fit against their mouth, the pressure of your body pinning them to the bed.
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Taking the Forced Out of Bi
The idea that as a man you don’t REALLY want to suck cock. Oh, no. You would totally hate to take that big, thick, hard cock down your entirely not eager throat except that your girlfriend is MAKING you!

I Humiliated a Boy, and I Liked It
But let’s just say that I have been having a bit of hostility about the way in which I’ve been treated by men who, of course, claim that they want to “worship” me…with anything except their wallets. Even when they take up a lot of time, bore me, and pay relatively little. So, I was game.

A Little Light Pegging Audio To Ease You Into Your Morning….
As for now, here is a sexy FREE audio recording I made about a sensual beginning pegging session. It’s quite gentle and loving. Enjoy!

Deciding Whether to Open Your Relationship
I’ve talked before about kink and non-monogamy and the overlap between the two in the public kink-o-sphere. Non-monogamy and kink certainly don’t NEED to go together, but they often do for people who enjoy kink outside of the bedroom.

Don’t Be a Brat! Or Do. Maybe?
Brats often get a bad rap in the kink world. Brats typically like to test their doms and act out either because they enjoy punishment (or funishment) or because they have switchy tendencies and require what they feel is a strong dom/domme to “put them in their place.”
Any Questions?
Hello, my Darling Deviants! I’m always looking for good blog content. If you have any questions you’d like to me to answer or topics you’d be interested in hearing me write about, please let me know! –Vivian

Why Denial is So Dang Hot!
My biggest kink is orgasm control. That involves a lot of things, including teasing, edging, ruining, chastity and denial.

Small Penis Humiliation: The Kink That Dare Not Speak Its Size
Since I’ve been doing phone work–sex, domination…whatever you want to call it…I have been bombarded with a kink that I NEVER thought I would do.

I Miss Kink Events
All of a sudden, I realized how MUCH I miss kink events. I mean all of them. The “vanilla” ones where I just hang out with people I like and flirt. God, I miss flirting! Just socializing with friends and getting to feel silly and drink a little too much (sometimes) and enjoy!