The question was, “Is femdom inherently feminist?
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Why Orgasm Control Has Become My Favorite Kink
I own a lot of toys. Like too many toys. Whenever I go to a kink con or event where there are vendors, I usually walk away with something. A new stingy crop. A pretty leather flogger. I have a Liberator Esse that I tell people is my “yoga chair.” Not sure they believe that…
The Gentle Dommecast Episode 15: Back From Kink Camp. Or Miss Vivian Is Extremely High Maintenance
We’re back from kink camp, and as promised, here is my follow up episode to our experience!
Submission Vs. Kinky Play in Lifestyle Vs. Pro-Domination
But you’ll also hear a lot of dommes say that many of these men aren’t REALLY submissive. They’re bottoms. They like kinky play, but that’s all. They don’t actually want a woman to be in charge and in control. They just want a woman to…you know…do stuff to them. Tie them up. Control their orgasms. “Make” them give a lot of oral sex. (I know. My heart bleeds for them.)
I’m Home From Kink Camp!
I do like going to big kink events. But perhaps camping and kink don’t mix for me!
The Gentle Dommecast Episode 14: Vivian Goes to Kink Camp
Hello, my darling deviants! I have left you for so long! I apologize. I’ve been traveling a lot over the summer. I missed you! In this special episode, The Rough Subbe and I discuss our upcoming visit to kink camp! That’s right! We’re going kinky camping. In this podcast, we talk about what we hope…
Masturbating to Rainbow Sherbet
Today I felt like talking a little bit about having a vanilla partner. To be honest, I don’t really like labels. I feel like kinky people sometimes use the word “vanilla” in a derogative way. I actually love vanilla ice cream and the scent of vanilla. There is nothing wrong with vanilla!
The Gentle Dommecast Episode 13: Taboos, Kink Shaming and Generalizations about Gentle Femdom
I might call this less of an episode and more of a tirade after seeing some major generalizations in one of my favorite kink forums about gentle femdom, feminization and age play. So, this entire podcast is a rebuttal against those generalizations. I’m probably going to piss some people off, but when DON’T I do that?
Your Task for Today: Up on Girl on the Net!
My erotic femdom audio story, “Your Task for Today,” is up on Girl on the Net! Woot! This was also the story that came in as runner up in The Good Sex Awards.
The Gentle Dommecast Episode 12: Erotic Hypnosis and Impact Play!
So, tonight I bit the bullet and just decided to record myself! I’m talking about erotic hypnosis, including how I was introduced to it, my feelings about if I can be hypnotized or not, and how much I’ve started to enjoy making erotic hypnosis audios and doing hypnosis on Niteflirt.