I’ve talked before about kink and non-monogamy and the overlap between the two in the public kink-o-sphere. Non-monogamy and kink certainly don’t NEED to go together, but they often do for people who enjoy kink outside of the bedroom.
Author: TheGentleDomme
Don’t Be a Brat! Or Do. Maybe?
Brats often get a bad rap in the kink world. Brats typically like to test their doms and act out either because they enjoy punishment (or funishment) or because they have switchy tendencies and require what they feel is a strong dom/domme to “put them in their place.”
Any Questions?
Hello, my Darling Deviants! I’m always looking for good blog content. If you have any questions you’d like to me to answer or topics you’d be interested in hearing me write about, please let me know! –Vivian
Why Denial is So Dang Hot!
My biggest kink is orgasm control. That involves a lot of things, including teasing, edging, ruining, chastity and denial.
Small Penis Humiliation: The Kink That Dare Not Speak Its Size
Since I’ve been doing phone work–sex, domination…whatever you want to call it…I have been bombarded with a kink that I NEVER thought I would do.
I Miss Kink Events
All of a sudden, I realized how MUCH I miss kink events. I mean all of them. The “vanilla” ones where I just hang out with people I like and flirt. God, I miss flirting! Just socializing with friends and getting to feel silly and drink a little too much (sometimes) and enjoy!
The Intimacy of Phone “Sex”
I suppose that isn’t that strange. This kind of connection through the phone or computer can feel very liberating. It gives people the confidence to be more of themselves, and I think a lot of men who don’t feel like they can express that honesty in person are able to do so more behind the veil of anonymity.
Kink, Polyamory and Non-Monogamy
When I got into the kink Scene, I was surprised by just how many kinksters were some form of non-monogamous. It was a lot. Not everyone. But ALMOST all of the kinksters I know, and by that I mean people who go to kink events, are at least a little bit non-monogamous.
And Now For Something a Little Bit Different
I suppose cuckqueaning is still under the femdom umbrella, at least if you’re the cuckcake, which I played in this audio, teasing the man about how his wife might find out about us, hows much better I was than her, and what she would do and say and feel if she caught us. But that’s a little more F/f than I’m used to talking about! I’m used to sweetly embarrassing and humiliating men–not women!
Today’s Post Is Brought To You By Kawaii
I really have nothing of interest to say today, but someone on a discussion board I’m in brought this to my attention, so how can I not share it!