I have been writing for a long time. And not just smut, although my mind easily wanders there. I love words, and I have always been fascinated by sex. It’s not the pleasure of it. In fact, I’ve often been too in my head to enjoy the raw physicality of sex. For me, sex really…
Author: TheGentleDomme
Kink and Long Distance Relationships
In that kind of situation, I would probably rely a lot more on mental connection. Orgasm control would be an excellent way to maintain that mental connection. You mentioned edging, so perhaps you did try that. But I would think in a situation like that, essentially turning your orgasms over to your partner would be hot–assuming she felt the same way.
Merry X-Mas With an X-Rated ASMR Gentle Femdom Audio
Merry X-Mas My Darling Deviants! I plan is to go tubing today, watch the new Pixar movie and maybe check out The Undoing or see if there’s another episode of The Stand. I hope you have a nice Christmas. This year has sucked, but let’s think positively. It’s almost over! Here’s a little femdom ASMR…
Being in a Relationship with Someone Like Me
I don’t talk too much here about ME. I talk about what I do, and I talk about my thoughts on certain topics, usually related to femdom. But I don’t talk a lot about my personal experiences or feelings, largely because I try to protect some of my privacy. But I’ve had a bit of…
A Caveat. Or Two. Or Three. About Labels and How They Are And Aren’t Useful
So, I inadvertently hurt some people’s feelings with my post yesterday. And I apologize for that. Sometimes I feel very clever, and my cleverness gets the better of my empathy. First, I assumed that my target reader was either a male sub or bottom or female top or Domme. And that wasn’t necessarily true. That…
The Myth of the “Alpha Sub.” Or: Do You Really Need to Use Greek Letters to Tell Me Who You Are?
But what I don’t think these guys realize is how this comes off to the women I think they are trying to impress. I find it a distinct turnoff when someone labels themselves this way or goes out of their way to explain why they are so different from OTHER submissive/bottom men.
My Feelings About Facesitting
And yet face sitting gets heavily lumped into BDSM femdom tropes. And I suppose I understand why. Certainly, you are in control when you are atop another person’s face, your pussy or ass snugly fit against their mouth, the pressure of your body pinning them to the bed.
Taking the Forced Out of Bi
The idea that as a man you don’t REALLY want to suck cock. Oh, no. You would totally hate to take that big, thick, hard cock down your entirely not eager throat except that your girlfriend is MAKING you!
I Humiliated a Boy, and I Liked It
But let’s just say that I have been having a bit of hostility about the way in which I’ve been treated by men who, of course, claim that they want to “worship” me…with anything except their wallets. Even when they take up a lot of time, bore me, and pay relatively little. So, I was game.
A Little Light Pegging Audio To Ease You Into Your Morning….
As for now, here is a sexy FREE audio recording I made about a sensual beginning pegging session. It’s quite gentle and loving. Enjoy!