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Wet Heat

And he gulps and says, “Yes ma’am,” but it’s clear that he’s not so sure, and let’s face it..I’m not slowing down. In fact, if anything, I’m speeding up–rubbing harder, squeezing, getting more of a grip on his bulge.

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I Did the Phone Sex. (And Liked It.)

I’ve gradually realized that I really love the feedback from my stories and audio recordings, and I enjoy interacting with people who read and listen. But I am also trying to make some money! And I had often toyed with the idea of trying phone sex over the years, but I was just too scared. I thought I might be awful at it. (I might be awful at it. I guess I’ll see.)

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My Boyfriend Told Me He’s Into Femdom, But I Don’t Know What to Do? Help!

Hello Dear Femdoms of the Internets! I have a problem. My boyfriend/husband/nesting partner/alien I’m having an affair with who lives in the studio over my garage has just told me he’s into femdom! HALP! I think this actually sounds kind of interesting, but I don’t know what to do! He says he wants me to take control, but I don’t know what that means or how to do it. Can you give me a list of thirty things to do to him, but only the ones he likes?

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Why Do Some Kinky People Wear Collars?

In the BDSM/Kink community, collars function as both accessories and statements of intent. If you’ve ever watched any BDSM porn, you’ve likely seen “slaves” in collars. And if you go to any kink events or hang out with kinky people, you will definitely see some people in collars.

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Bad Attitudes–On Self Hating Submissive Men and Please Shut the Fuck Up Already And Get Right With Your Damned Self

The response that really got me, which wasn’t even directed at me, personally, was about femdom porn and male submissives in general. Basically, it made all kinds of claims about how male subs really hated themselves and 99.9% of all male sub are secretly bisexual and just using being submissive as an excuse to work out sexual orientation through “forced bisexuality.”

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