Merry X-Mas My Darling Deviants! I plan is to go tubing today, watch the new Pixar movie and maybe check out The Undoing or see if there’s another episode of The Stand. I hope you have a nice Christmas. This year has sucked, but let’s think positively. It’s almost over! Here’s a little femdom ASMR …
I don’t talk too much here about ME. I talk about what I do, and I talk about my thoughts on certain topics, usually related to femdom. But I don’t talk a lot about my personal experiences or feelings, largely because I try to protect some of my privacy. But I’ve had a bit of …
So, I inadvertently hurt some people’s feelings with my post yesterday. And I apologize for that. Sometimes I feel very clever, and my cleverness gets the better of my empathy. First, I assumed that my target reader was either a male sub or bottom or female top or Domme. And that wasn’t necessarily true. That …
But what I don’t think these guys realize is how this comes off to the women I think they are trying to impress. I find it a distinct turnoff when someone labels themselves this way or goes out of their way to explain why they are so different from OTHER submissive/bottom men.
And yet face sitting gets heavily lumped into BDSM femdom tropes. And I suppose I understand why. Certainly, you are in control when you are atop another person’s face, your pussy or ass snugly fit against their mouth, the pressure of your body pinning them to the bed.
The idea that as a man you don’t REALLY want to suck cock. Oh, no. You would totally hate to take that big, thick, hard cock down your entirely not eager throat except that your girlfriend is MAKING you!
But let’s just say that I have been having a bit of hostility about the way in which I’ve been treated by men who, of course, claim that they want to “worship” me…with anything except their wallets. Even when they take up a lot of time, bore me, and pay relatively little. So, I was game.
As for now, here is a sexy FREE audio recording I made about a sensual beginning pegging session. It’s quite gentle and loving. Enjoy!
I’ve talked before about kink and non-monogamy and the overlap between the two in the public kink-o-sphere. Non-monogamy and kink certainly don’t NEED to go together, but they often do for people who enjoy kink outside of the bedroom.
Brats often get a bad rap in the kink world. Brats typically like to test their doms and act out either because they enjoy punishment (or funishment) or because they have switchy tendencies and require what they feel is a strong dom/domme to “put them in their place.”
