Today I felt like talking a little bit about having a vanilla partner. To be honest, I don’t really like labels. I feel like kinky people sometimes use the word “vanilla” in a derogative way. I actually love vanilla ice cream and the scent of vanilla. There is nothing wrong with vanilla!
Author: TheGentleDomme

The Gentle Dommecast Episode 13: Taboos, Kink Shaming and Generalizations about Gentle Femdom
I might call this less of an episode and more of a tirade after seeing some major generalizations in one of my favorite kink forums about gentle femdom, feminization and age play. So, this entire podcast is a rebuttal against those generalizations. I’m probably going to piss some people off, but when DON’T I do that?

Your Task for Today: Up on Girl on the Net!
My erotic femdom audio story, “Your Task for Today,” is up on Girl on the Net! Woot! This was also the story that came in as runner up in The Good Sex Awards.

The Gentle Dommecast Episode 12: Erotic Hypnosis and Impact Play!
So, tonight I bit the bullet and just decided to record myself! I’m talking about erotic hypnosis, including how I was introduced to it, my feelings about if I can be hypnotized or not, and how much I’ve started to enjoy making erotic hypnosis audios and doing hypnosis on Niteflirt.

Erotic Hypnosis: It’s a Thing.
I like it so much that I’ve revamped a few of my listings on Niteflirt to center around erotic hypnosis. You can see one here, although it’s a work in progress.
The Summer is Getting Away From Me
Hello, my Darling Deviants! I feel terribly guilty. Where has my writing gone? Where is my podcast? How do I work this? Where is that large automobile? Sorry. My brain started channeling Talking Heads there for a minute.
Listen to My New Face Slapping Femdom Audio!
My new audio is up at the fabulous Girl on the Net! It’s a femdom face-slapping audio, and if I do say so myself, it’s quite hot. You can give it a listen and decide for yourself.

Body Moves
While I would have loved to blame COVID on the 19+ pounds I gained…alas…I cannot. I picked them up the previous year and spent the majority of quarantine promising myself that I was going to lose them and then failing. I suppose one funny thing was that I swore in March 20 that by June…

Vote for My Hot Femdom Story!
I’m a finalist in the Good Sex writing competition. There are lots of good, sexy stories to read. But I’d love it if you voted for my story for reader’s choice award!

The Gentle Dommecast Episode 11: The Return of Kink Events & Subbing vs. Bottoming
In Episode 11 of The Gentle Dommecast, The Rough Subbe and I discuss the return of kink events post pandemic and the difference between submission and bottoming, specifically in F/m femdom.