It’s Episode 4 of The Gentle Dommecast! And this week The Rough Subbe and I are talking about older women/younger men dynamics and how those might or might not relate to femdom. (In my case, they kind of do.) We talk about what’s hot and fun about age gap relationships, as well as some of the difficulties involved in them. And we also bring up fetishizing age. Hint. I don’t like it.
Then we discuss honorifics, including the role they have in our relationship, what names The Rough Subbe likes to use for me and some of the pet names I use for him. We also talk about names we dislike for various reasons. (It took me a little while to come around to Ma’am.)
I think the sound was a little off this week, so I’m sorry if parts are a bit hard to hear. I’m going to be more careful about that from now on.
Sorry Rough Subbe but my domme is a Goddess. Haha. I don’t come from a religious background so I think it’s a little taboo and exciting to be worshipping a divine being that has irresistible beauty, perfect command and insatiable greed. She calls us her subs, pets or toys. But since I use service and worship in our RP I sometimes refer to myself as a servant or worshipper. I feel honorifics are more important to me as I really was turned off by the typical paypig rhetoric and I feel a serious need to address my domme correctly to show respect. Anyways thanks for these podcasts as I’m still new and your thoughts and opinions really are helpful and enlightening!
LOL. I doubt he is offended! I’m glad you guys have found what works for you. That’s really the important thing. It sounds like you have a lovely relationship!