But you’ll also hear a lot of dommes say that many of these men aren’t REALLY submissive. They’re bottoms. They like kinky play, but that’s all. They don’t actually want a woman to be in charge and in control. They just want a woman to…you know…do stuff to them. Tie them up. Control their orgasms. “Make” them give a lot of oral sex. (I know. My heart bleeds for them.) … Continue readingSubmission Vs. Kinky Play in Lifestyle Vs. Pro-Domination
Hello, my darling deviants! I have left you for so long! I apologize. I’ve been traveling a lot over the summer. I missed you! In this special episode, The Rough Subbe and I discuss our upcoming visit to kink camp! That’s right! We’re going kinky … Continue readingThe Gentle Dommecast Episode 14: Vivian Goes to Kink Camp
Today I felt like talking a little bit about having a vanilla partner. To be honest, I don’t really like labels. I feel like kinky people sometimes use the word “vanilla” in a derogative way. I actually love vanilla ice cream and the scent of vanilla. There is nothing wrong with vanilla! … Continue readingMasturbating to Rainbow Sherbet
I might call this less of an episode and more of a tirade after seeing some major generalizations in one of my favorite kink forums about gentle femdom, feminization and age play. So, this entire podcast is a rebuttal against those generalizations. I’m probably going to piss some people off, but when DON’T I do that? … Continue readingThe Gentle Dommecast Episode 13: Taboos, Kink Shaming and Generalizations about Gentle Femdom
My erotic femdom audio story, “Your Task for Today,” is up on Girl on the Net! Woot! This was also the story that came in as runner up in The Good Sex Awards. … Continue readingYour Task for Today: Up on Girl on the Net!
So, tonight I bit the bullet and just decided to record myself! I’m talking about erotic hypnosis, including how I was introduced to it, my feelings about if I can be hypnotized or not, and how much I’ve started to enjoy making erotic hypnosis audios and doing hypnosis on Niteflirt. … Continue readingThe Gentle Dommecast Episode 12: Erotic Hypnosis and Impact Play!
I like it so much that I’ve revamped a few of my listings on Niteflirt to center around erotic hypnosis. You can see one here, although it’s a work in progress. … Continue readingErotic Hypnosis: It’s a Thing.
Hello, my Darling Deviants! I feel terribly guilty. Where has my writing gone? Where is my podcast? How do I work this? Where is that large automobile? Sorry. My brain started channeling Talking Heads there for a minute. … Continue readingThe Summer is Getting Away From Me
My new audio is up at the fabulous Girl on the Net! It’s a femdom face-slapping audio, and if I do say so myself, it’s quite hot. You can give it a listen and decide for yourself. … Continue readingListen to My New Face Slapping Femdom Audio!