“I think the explanation is obvious, Brian. And I think the remedy is too. You could benefit from some milkings,” she said, with a soft smile on her face.

Femdom Porn I Know and Love
In the slop that is the internet, there ARE a few femdom porn creators who I really like.

Who’s My Good Puppy?
Last night my boy and I tried a little puppy play. This is something we’ve toyed with before a few times, but only half heartedly. I’ll admit that although I love calling him a “good boy,” because he is SUCH a good boy and the compliment is well deserved…it’s usually in the human sense. But…
Chastity Play Has “Grown” On Me
Honestly, I never thought I would get into chastity play. When I first entered into the public Scene, I met a couple who was into it, and I specifically remember having a conversation with the woman. “But I like sex,” I said. “Why would I want to lock up my man?” “Oh. You can still…
Finding a Domme During a Pandemic
As if finding a kinky partner wasn’t hard enough before, now Coronavirus seems to have made it downright impossible for many. This is when I’m really happy that I’m NOT currently dating. I have numerous friends, kinky and vanilla, who aren’t sure what the new “rules” are when it comes to dating and how to…

The Pandemic is a Real Kink Killer
Pardon the snark, since people are dealing with real death and despair, but I must admit that my interest in kink has waned quite a bit since COVID hit. I wrote the majority of my earlier articles earlier in the year before the pandemic began. Therefore, my latest previous articles before this one were not…

Tips for Navigating Your First Big Kink Event as a Man
I just returned from a favorite hotel takeover kink event of mine, and I had intended to write a few posts to help people navigate these kinds of events as newbies. But as I started to write, I realized that there are some differences in the advice I would give to women than to men….

Tips for Navigating a Big Kink Event as a Woman
I just returned from a weekend of debauchery at a big kink event. This one was in a hotel, although some are also held outside at campsites. The Gentle Domme is also The High Maintenance Domme, so I don’t usually attend those events! Big kink takeover events are usually crazy experiences. I love them and…

How to Do D/s When You’re in a Long-Distance Relationship
Whether you’re just separated temporarily from your partner or only see a long-distance partner by choice, keeping up a D/s relationship when your sweetie isn’t there can be tough. Let’s face it. Long-distance relationships are ALWAYS tough, whether you’re kinky or vanilla. But in some ways, a D/s relationship can help fan the flames of…

What Do Dominant Women Look for in Submissive Partners?
I see this question asked constantly on femdom forums. I get it! Submissive guys sometimes feel like dominant women are rare mythical creatures. There are ridiculous statistics like that there are 100 submissive men to every 1 dominant woman. I flatly think this is untrue, although I am willing to admit that the more hardcore…