I feel like I’ve been neglecting a little bit of everything lately! I’ve had some exciting and fun things going on in my personal life that have taken up time, and Monday and Tuesday of this week were very busy on Niteflirt. (Thanks, my lovelies!) But this wacky world audio smut peddling never really stops!…
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Do I Have a D/s Relationship, and What Does That Mean Anyway?
When I first got into the kink Scene I spent a lot of time of thinking about what I WAS. I mean this mostly in the sense that when you join Fetlife, you’re asked to choose a role, and since people I met were going to be seeing my Fetlife profile, I felt I needed something to label myself.
Making a Mess
(This is another version of my Wet Heat story. Why didn’t I post it instead? I don’t know. But if you’re into stories about men coming in their pants, this is twice as nice!) So, I have kind of a weird turn on. Do you want to hear about it? I know. I know. What…
My Niteflirt Schedule This Week April 17-24
Hello, my Darling Deviants! While I love working on NF, I admit that consistency can sometimes be difficult for me. I usually take every other Saturday and Sunday off. And inevitably THEN a bunch of people want to talk. Now I’m free, and it’s crickets. Such is life! In the interest of trying to be…
Episode 9 of The Gentle Dommecast: Chastity and Cuckolding
In Episode 9 of The Gentle Dommecast, The Rough Subbe and I discuss chastity and cuckolding! What talk about what “counts” as chastity, how we treat it in our relationship, finding a cage that’s right for you, and what we both get out of it. The Rough Subbe sums it up as, “It’s fun to…
Why I’m a Domme but I’m Also a Happy Top!
After my last very theoretical discussion about ethics and trans women and sex work, let’s get back to basics. I am basically a top. Now, there are several ways we use the words “top” and “bottom” related to sex. Some people use the words to say who is doing the penetrating and getting penetrated. That’s…
Talking About Cis Submissive Men Being Topped by Trans Women Makes Me Uncomfortable. Am I Wrong?
I’ve been thinking about this topic for a while, but I had an interesting conversation with a client tonight specifically about cis submissive men (or cis male bottoms) who want to be topped by trans women who have not had bottom surgery, and while it’s fresh in mind, I wanted to talk about it. I…
Just a Little Bit Burned Out
I realize I have been slacking on all of my writing lately. This has been for a few reasons. First, when I started this blog, it was simply a blog about gentle femdom. I posted quite frequently, but that was all I was doing. Then in the fall, I sort of stumbled into Niteflirt, and…
Episode 8 of the The Gentle Dommecast: Fetlife!
In Episode 8 of The Gentle Dommecast The Rough Subbe and I talk all about Fetlife! We discuss what Fetlife is, who might want to use it and why–or why not. We also talk about what we love and hate about Fetlife. On our list, we met through Fetlife. So, that’s a major positive! On…
Ups and Downs and Erotic Hypnosis to Boot!
I know I haven’t been as prolific on my blog as of late. This has been for several reasons. I had a guest. I was traveling. I’m on some new medication that’s giving me some weird side effects. AND I got my second vaccine! All of those are good things, even the medication with the…