I’ve been thinking about this topic for a while, but I had an interesting conversation with a client tonight specifically about cis submissive men (or cis male bottoms) who want to be topped by trans women who have not had bottom surgery, and while it’s fresh in mind, I wanted to talk about it. I…
Author: TheGentleDomme
Just a Little Bit Burned Out
I realize I have been slacking on all of my writing lately. This has been for a few reasons. First, when I started this blog, it was simply a blog about gentle femdom. I posted quite frequently, but that was all I was doing. Then in the fall, I sort of stumbled into Niteflirt, and…
Episode 8 of the The Gentle Dommecast: Fetlife!
In Episode 8 of The Gentle Dommecast The Rough Subbe and I talk all about Fetlife! We discuss what Fetlife is, who might want to use it and why–or why not. We also talk about what we love and hate about Fetlife. On our list, we met through Fetlife. So, that’s a major positive! On…
Ups and Downs and Erotic Hypnosis to Boot!
I know I haven’t been as prolific on my blog as of late. This has been for several reasons. I had a guest. I was traveling. I’m on some new medication that’s giving me some weird side effects. AND I got my second vaccine! All of those are good things, even the medication with the…
Episode 7 of The Gentle Dommecast: Ruined Orgasms and Hard Limits
In this episode we discuss ruined orgasms and hard (and soft) limits! We discuss what a ruined orgasm is, how one might theoretically make one happen, why they can be fun, and what we both like about them. The Rough Subbe also gets a little squeamish, which makes me laugh because I enjoy that sort…
Things I Like About Men, and Things I Don’t…
I am picky about men. I don’t mean sexually, although that’s also true. I’m sexually picky far beyond what I deserve based on my own fuckability. Purely objectively. And that’s not really a choice. I would certainly like to be attracted to more people. I’m just generally…not. I mean that I’m picky about the men…
My Quite Kinky New Audio Available!
I teased you the other day about the kinky new femdom audio I made.
Planning a Kink Scene, or Why I Stopped Planning Scenes When I Also Stopped Wearing a Bra
If you’re into tease and denial, like sommmeeeeee people around here, not naming any names, that “scene” could be something like I edge you continuously for an hour while periodically doing other things to drive you insane.
New Audio: Telling You All About Getting Fucked by Another Man
This is not THAT one, but someone specifically asked for more cuckolding content that was not based around humiliation. Now, is that really cuckolding? I, personally, think of cuckolding as being tied to humiliation. And if it’s not, I don’t think of it as cuckolding. I would put it more in the “hotwife” category or simply voyeurism.
Woot! My New Niteflirt Listing Is Live!
It might still be a bit busy! 😉 But there are lots of pretty moving images enticing you to click on them for sensual domination!