So, your submissive boyfriend or husband has confided in you with a deep, dark fantasy. He wants to dress up like a girl, and he wants you to help. Well, buckle up, buttercup. This is going to be a long one! You likely have one of several responses, varying from, “This relationship isn’t going to…
Year: 2020
Playing With His Senses: A Beginner’s Guide to Being a Sensual Domme
You might have heard the term “sensual domination” and wondered what it was. How is it different from good, old fashioned, regular domination? What? That’s not good enough anymore, huh? In my day we had to walk two miles to the dungeon in the snow….barefoot! And we liked it! (Of course you did, you masochist!)…
Three Sexy Gentle Femdom Role Plays for Novice Dommes and Subs
Some people love role play. It helps them really sink into the headspace they’re looking for and helps them get over their insecurities. Some people find it embarrassingly hard to stay in character. But whether if you’re into role playing or just want to give it a try, gentle femdom has a few really fun…
Ok Cupid Aims to Be Inclusive for Kinksters
New ads for OK Cupid are intentionally targeting dommes and subs! The ads, which are debuting now in North America, are attempting to show that, “Like past campaigns, OkCupid is committed to diverse representation (the platform has 22 options for gender and 13 for sexual orientation), and several pieces of creative—some of it saucy—hyper-target those…
Domme Bites: You Know What They Say About Big Brains, Don’t You?
That people into BDSM have them. A recent study confirmed that people who are into BDSM are typically highly educated. More than one-third had a university degree, with an additional 21% having a college degree. 70% had a higher education (ie, bachelor’s or master’s degree), compared to 34% in the general population. I can’t say…
Is a Female Led Relationship Right for You? A Beginner Guide to FLRs.
FLR stands for female led relationship. When people talk about femdom, what they usually talk about is the sexual aspect. They’re talking about bedroom kink where people are playing with sexual roles or where they’re not playing, but tend to leave the idea of the woman in charge in the realm of sexuality. An example…
Domme Bites: Belgian BDSM Study Reveals Comparison to Runner’s High
The University of Antwerp conducted a study at a local kink club and monitored them through the use of questionnaires, blood samples, algometers (to measure pain threshold), GSR sensors (to monitor stress), and heart rate monitors. They found positive stress responses in BDSM practitioners that were similar to what we think of as a “runner’s…
If a Domme Has Sex With Her Submissive, Is She Still Dominant?
Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! There is a weird misconception about femdom that if you are a female dominant, having sex with your male submissive makes you somehow less dominant. But this could not be farther from the truth. So, let’s talk about where this belief might come from and why it’s wrong. My…
Becoming Teacher’s Pet
What I propose is that we strengthen your willpower and attempt to reduce some of those confusing and distracting urges that young men your age are prone to experiencing. What you need to learn is restraint and the ability to push through distractions. Hello. Thank you for coming to see me after class during office…
Domme Bites: Femdom Netflix Show “Bonding” Renewed for Season Two
I wasn’t a big fan of the show. In fact, I could only get through a few episodes. I felt it was degrading to submissive men. But I suppose I do like seeing femdom represented in the media. I just wish it was a little more nuanced. Anyway, the show is coming back. Maybe I’ll…