Twenty-Five Things About The Gentle Domme

I realize I don’t talk a lot about MYSELF on here, and that’s partly because I’m trying to maintain some anonymity. But today I felt like indulging myself. So, here are twenty-five things about this gentle femdomme!

1. Were you named after anyone? Yes. I was named after a relative. I have an unusual name, which I like. I always felt sorry for the twelve girls I knew named Karen or Jessica or Jennifer.
2. When was the last time you cried? Oh, probably yesterday. I cry all the time. I cry when I’m sad but also when I’m frustrated and angry. And I am an ugly, loud crier.
3. Do you like your handwriting? No. Well, I mean, I don’t dislike it, but I have very messy handwriting for a reason a little too personal to reveal here. Writing by hand makes my hands get tired very quickly. I prefer to type.
4. What is your favorite lunch meat? I often feel squicky eating meat, lunch meat in particular. I admit I liked salami sandwiches when I was a kid, which seems pretty gross now.
5. Where do you see yourself in 10 years? Living in a big city making up for lost time.
6. If you were another person, would you be friends with you? THIS is a great question. Knowing all of my flaws so well, I don’t know if I would be friends with me. Sometimes I don’t like myself very much, and I’m always afraid people will see “through” me and decide they hate me. But I also believe that everyone is flawed, and I still find people to love. So, maybe I would be friends with me.
7. Do you use sarcasm a lot? NEVER.
8. What body part of yours do you like the best? I have fabulous legs. They run in my family. (Get it?) 
9. Would you bungee jump? I want to say yes, but probably not. I’ve ziplined before. I’m not really afraid of heights, but stepping off into the void sounds terrifying.
10. Do you untie your shoes when you take them off? I rarely wear shoes that have laces, but when I do, no. Not if I can help it.
11. Do you think you are strong? I am the strongest emotionally weak person I know. I cry and curse my way through terrible things, but I never give up. I have pathetic upper body strength, but my thighs could probably crack walnuts.  LOL. Okay. Probably not, but I have strong legs. Maybe a different kind of nuts.
12. What is your favorite ice cream? Praline. (There with the nuts again!)
13. What is the first thing you notice about people? Whether they seem emotionally open or not. I like people who make themselves vulnerable. Closed off people intimidate me, and I assume they won’t like me.
14. Red or pink? Pink.  Of course.
15. What is the least favorite thing about yourself? That I have trouble trusting myself to make the right choices for me.
16. Who do you miss the most? My dog.
17. What are you listening to right now? The sounds of my fingers clicking on the keyboard.
18. Favorite smells? Jo Malone perfume. Baking bread. A clean linen closet.
19. Favorite sports to watch? The Scripps National Spelling Bee.
20. Favorite food? Freshly baked bread.
21. Last movie you watched? The Boys in the Band remake on Netflix.
22. Any tattoos? No. I wanted one when I was younger and my friends were all getting them. But I never did, and it was probably for the best.
23. Who is your hero? I don’t have a hero. Is that sad? There are people I admire for various reasons, mostly creative people. But there’s no one I would call a hero. I think people are all too flawed for that.  
24. What is the best gift you’ve been given? The best gifts I’ve been given have been the personal ones that someone took a lot of time and thought into creating. Although I like pretty things, I’m not very impressed with them as gifts.
25. If you had a warning label, what would yours say? May implode at any time.