In this episode we discuss ruined orgasms and hard (and soft) limits!

We discuss what a ruined orgasm is, how one might theoretically make one happen, why they can be fun, and what we both like about them. The Rough Subbe also gets a little squeamish, which makes me laugh because I enjoy that sort of thing. I also boast about my record, although it’s possible I’m just a legend in my own mind. 

Then we discuss the concept of limits, hard and soft, including our own limits. And I get a little judgey about people who always call out “scat” as a hard limit on their Fetlife profiles because I can just be a judgey bitch sometimes. 

Enjoy!