In this episode I tell you how Miss Vivian got her kinky groove back. TRS and I had some fun kinky play over the weekend, including one super simple scene idea if you like objectification as much as we do.
Tag: Relationship Questions
The Gentle Dommecast Episode 17: Submission Vs. Kinky Play and the Importance of Being Honest With Partners
In this episode, I discuss the differences between submission and kinky play, submission and bottoming, and how liking or disliking service doesn’t make or break submission.
Kink and Long Distance Relationships
In that kind of situation, I would probably rely a lot more on mental connection. Orgasm control would be an excellent way to maintain that mental connection. You mentioned edging, so perhaps you did try that. But I would think in a situation like that, essentially turning your orgasms over to your partner would be hot–assuming she felt the same way.
Who Puts the Good in “Good Boy?” And Why Praise Kink is a Powerful Form of Therapy
hat is it about “good boy” that’s so hot?
Ask a Gentle Domme: How Can I Get My Wife or Girlfriend to Peg Me?
The short answer is that there’s no way to force your wife to peg you or to like it. But, depending on what her objections are and what your relationship is like, you might be able to convince to her to give it a try. Pegging, a term coined by readers of Dan Savage back…
Help! My Boyfriend is a Sub and I’m a Switch. How Can I Get What I Need?
Sometimes people’s needs match up perfectly. But often they don’t. You might think that if you meet a partner through the kink community, you’re all set. You’re both kinky. What’s the problem? But as most experienced kinksters know, it’s not always that simple. If you’re a switch and you meet a submissive man who doesn’t…
Five Kinkalicious Ways to Help Your Girlfriend Feel Like the Confident Domme She Was Born to Be
If you’re a lucky sub who’s scored the girl of his vanilla dreams AND she’s psyched to be your domme, you probably feel like you’ve hit the jackpot. But if your girlfriend or wife is new to femdom, she might feel nervous about her fresh role. Most women are taught both consciously and subconsciously to…
If a Domme Has Sex With Her Submissive, Is She Still Dominant?
Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! There is a weird misconception about femdom that if you are a female dominant, having sex with your male submissive makes you somehow less dominant. But this could not be farther from the truth. So, let’s talk about where this belief might come from and why it’s wrong. My…