I woke up to a happy event, which was that Ferns had found me on BlueSky, and I promptly went through all the people she followed and followed them because if they have the Ferns seal of approval, that is good enough for me. I also found OMissPearl, whom I love, and Natalie Wynn of…
Tag: domme thoughts
Do I Really Have Any Power as a Domme? I’m Still Just a Male Fantasy.
First, I should be honest and say that I think labels in kink are sort of silly. I think labels in kink are the equivalent of chastity cages—toys. If you want to use them that’s fine. But I don’t take them very seriously. Am I a “femdomme?” I don’t know. Who cares. I’m a lot…
I Could Donate a Lot of Money But I Might Also Have a Stroke
So, I’ve kind of been losing my mind for the past few days. I don’t think I’m alone, although I feel sort of alone and suspicious of everyone I see walking down the street. I know those blue bracelets are performative, but could we have them right now because I need to know who the…
Even Gilead Had Jezebel’s.
So, I’m not under any illusion that the men who call me on Niteflirt and tell me that they want to serve me ACTUALLY want to serve me, or that the ones who call me Goddess ACTUALLY have any particular respect or interest in me beyond their fetishes. I am really no more of a…
Episode 20: Miss Vivian and TRS Get Fan Mail!
What a treat! We got fan mail! TRS and I received the sweetest email from a new Domme who listens to our podcast.
Really. Really.
I talked to a man this morning who wanted me to tell him what a day with me would really be like.
The Gentle Dommecast Episode 18: Getting My Kinky Groove Back and What to Do When You Want Kinky Play and Your Partner Doesn’t
In this episode I tell you how Miss Vivian got her kinky groove back. TRS and I had some fun kinky play over the weekend, including one super simple scene idea if you like objectification as much as we do.
In a Rut
But as for reviving the kink in my kinky relationship (because I also have a much more vanilla relationship), I really don’t want to lose that. But it’s hard to find the effort when most of me says, “Just snuggle on the couch and watch Netflix.” In fact, I’ve even been finding myself wanting to be topped quite a bit lately, which is unusual for me. It’s like I want to be the person who doesn’t have to think and make the decisions.
Did You Know That Dommes Can Bottom Too?
But sometimes…just sometimes…I like to bottom.