I’m going to be honest. I really didn’t know what to talk about today.

I started to write about whether there is any link between kink and trauma and realized that while I personally believe you can be totally kinky and relatively emotionally healthy (or as healthy or not as any vanilla person), I was also lazy and didn’t feel like looking up a bunch of articles about it.

And I was pretty sure someone was just going to yell at me and tell me I was wrong.

So, instead, I’m just going to tell you about something hot I did this weekend! And isn’t that way more fun than talking about trauma?

Good lord, how much trauma do we all need these days? If there is a link, there are going to be a hell of a lot more kinky people in this world after 2020—-(stretching on forever to infinity…has 2020 really even ended?)

The sexy thing was taking my hot pink double-sided dildo (meant for pegging but really terrible for pegging) and surprising the BF by making him wait in the other room until I had it…situated…and then inviting him in for a cock sucking session.

Just naked me and the pink dildo.

I do have a weakness for pink sex toys.

He is quite oral, so it was a treat for both of us, since the other end of the dildo was also inside of ME. So, I encouraged him to really put some effort in.

With the added bonus on getting to put my hands on the back of his head and help guide and instruct him to do a thorough job. I do so love guiding and instructing. Especially when a “student” is so eager to learn!

There IS something about that, the putting my hands on the back of a head gently but insistently that makes me feel very in charge and excited. I would do it a lot, consensually, if I had a bio-cock.

That was not the ONLY sexy thing that happened this weekend, in between a lot of episodes of The Crown. That young Queen Elizabeth. She was rather steely. Wasn’t she? But it’s the one that’s in my dirty little mind as I’m writing this morning.

This week I have plans to make some more audio recordings. So, you can look for those if you like them. Maybe I’ll even do a free one, if I’m feeling generous. 😉