I said in my last blog post that The Rough Subbe and I are doing Locktober this. I’ve written about chastity before, and one of the things I’ve posted about is cages and whether they are necessary.

It’s been hard for TRS to find the right cage for him. One was so big it looked a little like an elephant trunk. One just did not look like it would fit any human alive it was so tiny. So, we did a lot of mental chastity over the years. Basically, he would agree not to orgasm without permission. And personally, I think this is fine. I don’t think you NEED a cage to DO chastity if the guy is committed to it.

However, I do think the cage really keeps him very aware of what we’re doing and our dynamic. He can’t forget about it the way he can if he’s uncaged. The negative aspects of the cage are that it must be kept clean, and we have to go through the rigamarole of unlocking it when I want to use him.

That could be very sexy in theory, but it’s actually kind of funny watching him struggle to get it off and put it back on after. I don’t really find the cage itself “hot.” But I do like what it does to him and the headspace it puts him in.

He really seems to like to this new cage. I’m thinking he may becoming a little addicted to it and will continue wearing it indefinitely. If you’re wondering, it’s a pink cobra cage.