In this episode, I discuss the differences between submission and kinky play, submission and bottoming, and how liking or disliking service doesn’t make or break submission.
All About “Service Subs” and Gentle Femdom and Why I Pay Someone to Clean My Own Damned House
In relationships, I like to be pampered and taken care of. But this isn’t because it’s part of my kinks. I just enjoy being pampered and taken care of. I also like making most of the day to day decisions—not because I find it sexy, but because I’m a control freak and tend to think I’m awesome that way. I like my coffee delivered to my bed. I like a house nice and neat for me. But those are just nice things my partner can do for me. It doesn’t make me horny.