In this episode, I discuss the differences between submission and kinky play, submission and bottoming, and how liking or disliking service doesn’t make or break submission.
In relationships, I like to be pampered and taken care of. But this isn’t because it’s part of my kinks. I just enjoy being pampered and taken care of. I also like making most of the day to day decisions—not because I find it sexy, but because I’m a control freak and tend to think I’m awesome that way. I like my coffee delivered to my bed. I like a house nice and neat for me. But those are just nice things my partner can do for me. It doesn’t make me horny.