Is it Loctober? Or Locktober? I’ve unchained The Rough Subbe from my dungeon walls, and he’s “agreed” to podcast with me again! This episode is all about chastity, including why the details never seem quite as sexy as porn (imagine that), choosing the perfect for you cage, what we each find fun about it, and…
Author: TheGentleDomme
Some Upcoming Podcasts!
Just in time for Locktober, The Rough Subbe and I are enjoying some fun chastity….I was going to say games….but they aren’t really games. They are playful and fun, though! And since he is soooo excitable, he is much more amenable to podcasting with me. Ladies….take note. đ So, I think we might be starting…
Ups and Downs and Ups Again
The Rough Subbe and I have been going through some challenging things lately regarding our relationship. It is always somewhat tenuous because of our ages and places in life, but sometimes I feel it more than other times. Yes! Dommes can get insecure. And it is very bad for a D/s dynamicâat least mine. When…
Premature Ejaculation Training is the Best Kink Ever
Have I talked about premature ejaculation training again recently? I donât feel like Iâve talked about why I love this kink enough lately. Sometimes I feel like the most boring Domme in the world because I donât care about hitting people. Or tying them up. Okay. Maybe a little scratching. But not even much of…
From the Dark Part of the Brain
I was having a conversation with someone the other day about kink (shocking), and the topic of breeding fantasies came up. I somewhat shamefully admitted, that I have a total breeding kink, although I literally NEVER actually play it out with anyone in person. Never have. Never will. This is NOT an invitation! In fact,…
No. I Actually Donât Want to Sit on Your Face.
I know itâs been an eon since I published anything. I have resolved anew to get back into the swing of things, both professionally and in my personal life. I have let so many friendships languish, and honestly, I often feel rather lonely. (Not an invitation for stalkers, please.) I have no one to blame…
Whereâd You Go, Miss Vivian?
I know, boys. I have disappeared again. I do this periodically. Donât I? Itâs very bad for business. If youâre someone who pays for dominationâdefinitely onlineâand probably offline too, but I donât do that, so I canât speak for in person dommesâthere is something you should know. Paid domination is a lot of work. Yeah,…
Why Is Erotic Humiliation So Hot?
Bringing out my, âThis hurts me more than it hurts you,â nurturing condescension is funny. Maybe I have a lot of latent hostility I need to get outâalthough itâs rare that I get to go as far I probably could with a guy. One time someone told me to throw everything I had at his SPH kink, and he started to cry. Like really cry. That was satisfying. A job well done!
My Kid is Trans. I Do Online Domination. Itâs Confusing.
You can also listen to this blog post here. You Can You Also Listen to This Blog Post Here. Last year my daughter came out as trans. Iâm on a bunch of support groups for cis parents of trans kids, and I could have written about this there. I mean, I have written about various…
I’m a Top Sex Blogger? I’m a Top Sex Blogger!
I came in at 40 on the 100 Top Sex Blogger list for 2022 ! Not bad for someone who has almost completely ignored her blog for a long time! Maybe it’s resting on my laurels from when I was posting semi interesting material on the regular. (Sheepishly slinks away….)